I had realised that some people CAN LIVE WITHOUT ANYTHING (money,families,friends,and even love...), but there is ONE THING that they really CANT LIVE WITHOUT IT! And that particular thing can be a heaven or hell to them, it is all depend on the person mentality!
When a person is involved into a certain "dependence", they are hardly overcome it and in the LONG RUN it will lead to psychological dependence and physical dependence. The "dependence" that i mention here is those dependence that will bring HARM to one life.
Most of the people who are fall into certain addiction keep saying that there is no solution to overcome and the "particular dependence" is actually bring benefit to them which one of the reason is it will reduce the stress...or perhaps to escape from reality...and does it affective in order to get overcome the stress and some other reason...?
I believed that these people are lack of coping skill or maybe they are poor in coping skill, and therefore they could not resist the temptation or the influences from people around them. And the excuses is always blame to the external factors, and they will never look into the internal factors...And the most important thing is most of the time we know the consequences on what we are doing, but we still keep doing it and minimize the consequences and when the time has come then only we will regret on what we had done...it is so pathetic~
When a person is involved into a certain "dependence", they are hardly overcome it and in the LONG RUN it will lead to psychological dependence and physical dependence. The "dependence" that i mention here is those dependence that will bring HARM to one life.
Most of the people who are fall into certain addiction keep saying that there is no solution to overcome and the "particular dependence" is actually bring benefit to them which one of the reason is it will reduce the stress...or perhaps to escape from reality...and does it affective in order to get overcome the stress and some other reason...?
I believed that these people are lack of coping skill or maybe they are poor in coping skill, and therefore they could not resist the temptation or the influences from people around them. And the excuses is always blame to the external factors, and they will never look into the internal factors...And the most important thing is most of the time we know the consequences on what we are doing, but we still keep doing it and minimize the consequences and when the time has come then only we will regret on what we had done...it is so pathetic~
